Saturday, February 22, 2025

Pillows and Parsley

 

Decorating the plate of a fancy meal with a sprig of parsley is like placing a pillow in a coffin.  There is really no need for either. It’s just something we do, like waving to strangers on a passing boat.

On occasion, I try to examine my life so I might skim off anything superfluous.  Not unlike cleaning out a junk drawer every now and then.  I mean, just how many pairs of scissors does a person need.

I’m sure there are barnacles attached to me that have been there for so long I no longer see them.  There are shoes in my closet I no longer wear.  They are worn out, or no longer fit, and yet I hang onto them.   Why, I’m not sure.   In fact, there is an old blue jean jacket I have had for many years.  I can’t remember the last time I had it on.  The thing is, no matter how many times it has been washed, there are still memories attached to it.  I see them every time I look at it.  It just isn’t something to be tossed out.

It isn’t a security blanket but it’s going with me, along with that final pillow.

 




 

 

1 comment:

Pauline said...

It is funny how we hang on to "things" and the memories that they bring. It's the memories we really want to hang on to. Some stuff I have thrown away, but still think about at times and wonder if I really should have thrown them away!